As one climbs to success It is important to remember one’s humble beginnings. Manifesting your dreams into reality is not a process that can be achieved overnight. One needs patience, perseverance and most importantly, the courage to follow their intuition. If you are serious about making your dreams become true, you will have to learn about the power of positive thinking and how to use it to control your mind. To create your own reality, you have to join the school of life, and of course reading books are mandatory to reach your full potential. This guide will show you the most important habits to start working on to create the reality you always dreamed of.
Here are 5 ways to reach the top of the ladder of success:
1. Read books
Reading inspirational books is the first step to start your journey towards making your dreams come true. It’s not easy to meet people who turn their dreams into reality because they are in a different and higher frequency. They are usually very busy and their time is very high in demand. Luckily, a lot of those people also want to help others to awaken and reach their full potential. Most of them put their life’s knowledge and lessons into books. By reading those books you can learn amazing lessons on how to materialize your dreams. It took a life time for the authors to discover those secrets, but thanks to their books, it will take you only a few hours or days to process them. If you are not willing to read books on your own, I encourage you to listen to the audiobook version. They can easily be found on youtube. If you still insist on not doing your homework, you will need a mentor who will guide you and transmit this information to you. Books are the first mentors I ever had and at times were the only ones that would encourage me to dream in a world that wants you to sleep.
Inspirational books will also teach you how to connect with the spiritual world which is your intuition. You will learn to read the signs of the universe and to understand your feelings as well. Many say the language of god happens through feelings. That’s the only way you can know if what you are getting are messages from the universe or just your imagination. This takes time, patience and practice just like anything in life. It is a skill that need to be cultivated and developed. Books can open your mind to many amazing things. For a list of important books, read our article on “Top 10 books that will change your life“.
2. Travel the world
Traveling is one of the best ways to learn how to live in the present moment, trigger creativity and discover yourself. It also teaches you important lessons on how to live a simple life and appreciate what you might have taken for granted in the past. Traveling is very important because it exposes a person to different experiences that one would’ve never experience in their regular routine. Traveling forces a person to adapt, try new things and take risks. While traveling you will be meeting new people constantly which will allow you to learn a lot about yourself and how to interact with other people. You also learn how to be independent and to trust your gut when having to make quick decisions. When traveling, it’s important to give yourself a goal; why are you going there? what do you want to improve in your life? what is your objective? what do you wish to learn about yourself or life? Do not travel just to get drunk or party . You can meet many amazing people while traveling and learn a lot from them.
3. Disconnect from other people’s realities
This is a very important point and many books will also go in depth into this subject. In order to achieve your dreams, you have to truly believe in yourself and that you are capable of turning dreams into reality. In order to do this, you have to surround yourself with people who believe in you, who encourage you and bring positive energy into your life. Did you ever heard the saying “tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are?” well this saying is very true. A person is the average of the 5 people they spend most of their time with. If you are surrounded by people who are drunks or party animals, this means you are in that reality as well. If you are in a reality where people around you are achieving their dreams, becoming famous, opening companies and thriving, be happy about it, because it means you are in that reality as well and good things will come to you sooner or later. You have to let go of any negative things in your life and that means even your old toxic friends. If your friends laugh at you when you tell them about your dreams, it means they are not real friends. They are creating a barrier which blocks your energies to reach your full potential.
4. Stop watching main stream media
This is another important key step towards success. If all you are doing during the week is watching TV shows, the news and listening to Miley Cirus, you are surrounding yourself with those frequencies and you are creating a big blockage in your life. It is extremely hard to have a positive mental attitude after listening to the news. Instead of listening to music about partying or clubbing listen to music that makes you want to follow your dreams. I for example, listen to music from movie scenes which makes me feel like I am a character in one of them. It gives me strength, courage and it also helps me to believe in myself. I try to imagine myself accomplishing all my goals when that song is playing. It gives me energy to chase after my dreams. Instead of watching TV, try watching YouTube videos about inspirational people who took control of their life and change their realities. Also read articles like this one and be open minded, you can find many information in the internet. The good thing about the internet is that you are the one choosing what to read, hear or watch, and not the other way around. Ultimately, you have decide which side of the glass you want to be on. The one who make his dreams come true or the person who helps others make their dreams come true.
5. Believe in yourself
The most important step of all , it’s to believe in yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself, how do you expect other to do so? If you never really thought about it , then you should start doing it. Ask yourself this simple questions “do you truly believe that you can accomplish your dreams?” and be honest with yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself or you have doubts, that is normal. We grew up in an environment where school teaches us that there’s only one way to success and that is almost impossible to make our dreams come true by doing what we love. But in reality, all you have to do is trust your intuition and start repeating to yourself as often as possible that you are already the person that you want to become. Imagine yourself giving a speech in the future of how you overcame adversity and how you turned your dreams into reality. Even if at times you doubt yourself, go back into your imagination where you are a legend and keep believing in it.This is extremely important and if you can’t honestly see yourself as that successful person, “fake it until you make it”. If you persist and keep working towards your goal, it will eventually materialize.
Don’t let other people make you doubt yourself. When you are talking to someone, if you feel that they are putting you down, you have to cut them out of your life. Often, these people don’t have a positive mental attitude and rarely contribute in any way to your growth. Instead they are just trying to hold you back because they are afraid of feeling inferior to you. This is not necessarily their fault, it’s just that they do not know any better and they don’t want to get hurt. So they try to protect themselves against anything that can hurt them. It is in our human nature. This is why a lot of people feel jealous when someone around them is succeeding and chasing their dreams. Deep inside them, they feel sad and afraid , so they start judging and making scenarios on how they are better than you and how your dreams are not realistic.. and guess what? you can feel those energies right away.. and it’s not in your imagination. Therefore, it’s important to keep your dreams to yourself until they are strong enough to fly on their own. Try to stay positive, no matter how your journey is going, keep faith and believe that all the dots will connect in the future. It’s not easy to stay positive all the time but its possible to do. It just takes time and courage to believe in yourself even after you’ve been defeated. Believe that anything beautiful can happen in your life at any moment. Believe in miracles. It’s just like Walt Disney said: “if you don’t believe in magic, you’ll never see it”.
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